This week my favorite Movie

I THINK SOME OF US FORGOT HOW TO RELAX!

NO CELL PHONES OR TV ALOUD

Do you remember when you were young you had no care in the world. Now that some of us have children or just things going on in our lives, it’s just so hard to relax. Well I am going to give you some pointers to do so, and I want some feed back. Starting off once a week. Women will probably like this one men can do this also. Get some cologne the kind that you like, and don't forget the bubbles for your bath. You can use the milk that you buy from the store for bath water,or if you have some dry milk at home use that,and some small candles with candle holders. Don't forget the baby oil. Pick up some good wine, champagne, or cider. Get your favorite exotic fruit, and some nice music. Make sure you put the kids to bed on time, or make sure you are not disturb for at least thirty minutes to an hour. Take a shower first to get the day filth off your body. After you finished showering draw your bath water as hot as your body can stand it put the cologne in first, bath bubbles, milk, and then your baby oil. Then you will place your candles where you want them and light them before you get into the bath. Put your favorite exotic fruit in the prettiest bowl that you have, pour your favorite wine, champagne, or cider in a colorful flute or a wine glass. You can get those from the .99 store. Get your radio put it in a corner of your bathroom. Make sure that it is no where so you will be able to reach it. You are going to fully relax. I don’t want you to move a muscle. The only muscle that you will be working is that right or left arm reaching for your beverage, and your exotic fruit. After you get out of that bath you are going to feel wonderful. At least start off with one day a week for just yourself. I could have easily said to go shopping, look at a movie, candle light dinner with your baby, or go out. Guess what there is always someone to mess that up. In the relaxing bath water you are feeling relaxed like the queen or king that you are, eating an exotic fruit,enjoying the candles, sipping on your favorite beverage, and listening to your favorite music. Can you see yourself in that water? Try it I guarantee it will grow on you.

Don't hate

Just because you are working yourself like you are a slave on Chicken Jorge's farm don't hate on what I have to say. That is what is wrong with people today they hate on other people's accomplishments. For what it is worth if you are doing something that you love to do, why hate. You are not going to get any where being hateful on what others are doing in their lives. You either will piss that person off, or you will just give that person more to write, or more to say personally to you. Why even write me and put anonymous. You must be scared to say who you are. MMMM...... do I scar you? I know! I must dangerously intimidate you. Good! I hope that you have something worth while to say. Come out of the closet I dare you. I know how to cut a person down with nice words now. Try me God Bless.

My kids

When I had my children, that was best time of my life. It was amazing when they came into this world, and then seeing them grow up to be beautiful kids, teenagers, young adults, and then adults. I have two grown daughter and one grown son, and they are all amazing. Shawleata my eldest has a daughter now, and she is beautiful. My baby girl is so much like I was at her age. She is the sweetest person until you cross her. My eldest son Ben Jr. is my handsome young man, but he still has a lot to learn. He is now in college and staying on campus. He loves being independent, but still loves being mommas boy. My middle child Nate is something else. My goodness, he is my energetic child. He can't sit still for nothing, and we have a lot to work on, but Nate is the sweetest when he wants to be. He is very smart when he wants to be. My baby son Josh he is the sweetest of all my kids. He cares so much about others, but he can also be hand full. He has matured so much, and I am proud of him. Really and truly I am proud of ALL of my kids they have really come out of an unstable life and are trying their best to survive. I hope when you all are older like mom you can look back over your life and say that I appreciate what my mom taught me. My children to me are very important and will always be. That is one thing I would like to thank my ex-husband for is our wonderful children they are the one thing that I will never regret.

What would you like to say about your kids?

MOMMY LOVES YOU ALL SO MUCH

SHAWLEATA
LA SHAY
BEN JR.
NATE
JOSH

Waking up and starting your day

Have you ever thought about how you wake up every morning? Why do you think you are fortunate to wake up ever morning? Do you just wake yourself up every morning? Does someone literally wake you up, or is their someone in your inner you that wakes you up? You see we all have these certain theories that we believe in. I believe that God wakes me up every morning. When I get up I say my prayers, do the wash up thing, and start my day. I have natural energy, so I don't need that first cup of java in the morning. I know some of you do. Now if my morning starts off on the right foot I am fine, but it always takes that phone call, or someone just ticking you off to throw your morning off. If you don't be careful your whole day will be based off your morning. So I am asking you to try this out. When wake up in the morning, and do what you will normally do smile at yourself in the mirror. Then say to your self I am going to have a great day no matter what. Breath that sentence, live that sentence all day long. Put on or sing your favorite song. If you don't want to disturb others put on head phones. This is very important, because we have so many people dying of heart attacks, strokes, high blood pressure, cancer, tumors, and so on. Why not wake up to start your day like it is your last. Have fun with your life, and try and be humble about it. Tell me if it worked out for you.

This week three of my favorite music artist

Marvin Gaye born in 1939 I want you was released in 1976. It was released on the Tamla Motown Lable. The album was his first release.


Isley Brother released In Between the Sheets in 1983


Teena Marie can't forget her. That woman has the most remarkable voice. Still In Love With You came out in the 80's


I know a lot of you remember these songs. What do you want to listen too. Enjoy, and you will see more next week.